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Lessons Beyond the Classroom: Things I Wish I Had Known in College

College is often seen as a stepping stone to a career, a degree, and a defined path. But what if success isn’t just about reaching the finish line? What if the real growth happens in the journey itself? These were some of the key insights shared by Cedric Cooper, who earned his MA in Public Relations from NYIT and his JD from New England Law Boston, in a talk that left a lasting impact.

As someone who has navigated both the academic and professional worlds, Cedric offered powerful reflections on failure, resilience, and personal growth—lessons I wish I had known earlier. Here are some of the most thought-provoking takeaways from his talk.

Success is a Journey, Not a Destination

Too often, we measure success by results—a grade, a job offer, a salary. But Cedric reminded us that it’s the journey that pushes you forward, not the outcome.

• Focus on the process, not just the results. Growth happens in the struggles, the late-night study sessions, the risks you take, and the lessons learned along the way.

• Celebrate progress. Every small accomplishment—whether it’s mastering a skill, networking with a mentor, or overcoming self-doubt—is part of the bigger picture.

Failure is Not the End—It’s a Chapter in Your Story

Failure is often seen as something to avoid. But Cedric emphasized that failure itself is the key to success—not something to hide but something to embrace.

• It’s not failure that defines you, but what you do after it. Whether it’s a bad grade, a rejected internship application, or a personal setback, your response is what truly matters.

• Talk about your struggles. Many people share their wins but stay silent about their failures. However, real success comes from learning through adversity.

Ask Yourself: “Is This What I Want?”

One of the most eye-opening questions Cedric posed was:

"Am I willing to do this for the rest of my life?"

• College and career choices can feel like permanent decisions, but they’re not. If something doesn’t align with your values or interests, it’s okay to pivot.

• Reflect deeply. Are you choosing a path because it excites you, or because it’s expected of you? Success isn’t just about following a plan—it’s about finding what truly matters to you.

Growth is Life: The First Job is Just the Beginning

Many students see their first job or first salary as the ultimate goal, but Cedric reminded us that it’s just the start.

• Your career is a series of stepping stones. Instead of fixating on landing the perfect job right away, focus on what you can learn, build, and improve over time.

• No victory is sweeter than the one you earn. Hard work, persistence, and growth will bring long-term rewards—more valuable than any shortcut to success.

Final Thoughts: Keep Moving Forward

If there’s one major lesson from Cedric’s talk, it’s this: focus on how you get to success, not just when you get there. Whether you’re a student, an early-career professional, or someone at a crossroads, these lessons remind us to:

• Embrace the journey, not just the results

• Turn failure into learning

• Reflect on what truly matters to you

• Keep growing beyond college and first jobs

What’s one thing you wish you had known earlier? Share your thoughts in the comments!